I will never forget this moment.
We had been dating for about 8 months. As we were walking out of a restaurant, where I had met his friend, my husband-to-be asked:
“You hated him, didn’t you?”
“What?” I was shocked. “I hope I wasn’t rude. How could you tell?”
He replied: “You were biting your lip, and you only do that when you are biting back your feelings.”
At that moment, I knew he got me and that this was what my friend and gifted psychotherapist calls, REAL LOVE.
He saw me. He heard me, and he wanted to discuss how I felt.
In subsequent conversations, I learned that his friend was a good guy after all, and probably just a little protective of his buddy the first time we met.
I also learned more and more what REAL LOVE truly was, because, in situation after situation, my Joe showed up the same way, checking in, caring about how I felt and wanting to talk through and work out any conflict we were having.
I can trust, even when I am upset or things are rough, that he loves me, cares about my feelings, and wants to find a resolution that works for both of us.
Whether you are single or already partnered up, I want you to have REAL LOVE too. This is why I am psyched to share this chat I had with Terri about REAL LOVE and to invite you to a FREE Webinar she is doing this week.
In our chat below, Terri shares:
- Just what REAL Love can be
- The number one block she sees to people having REAL LOVE
- The 3 Questions you can ask yourself to help you understand and to recognized unconscious reactions that are a response to your past verses what you want now.
And, she has FREE Webinars this week for both Single Ladies on Wednesday, 1/30 at 2:00 pm and Thursday, 1/31 at 7:00 pm and Women in Relationships on Wednesday, 1/30 at 7:00 pm and Thursday, 1/31 at 2:00 pm filled with life changing information you won’t want to miss.
In her FREE Webinar for All My Single Ladies, she is going to share:
- How to stop the never-ending unsatisfying dating cycle by uncovering the specific unconscious patterns that are keeping you from finding your soulmate.
- How to determine your unique attraction style and strategies to become a magnet for a new, healthy relationship with the true connection you desire.
- Simple, effective scripts (based on YOUR communication style) to help you better navigate the dating game.
In the her FREE Relationship Webinar, Terri is sharing:
- How to identify your unique “Relationship Archetype” plus corresponding strategies to up-level your understanding, connection, and intimacy. With this assessment guide, you’ll instantly see where (or IF) you should invest your time and where to cut your losses.
- Her Love Blueprint Questionnaire to uncover unconscious material that could be setting your relationship up to fail. You’ll learn how to avoid having the same fight over and over for the next 4 decades!
- How you can communicate based on your Archetype to maximize effectiveness and finally be seen, heard and known in your relationship, and identify where dysfunctional communication might be sabotaging your best efforts!
So much LOVE and Joy to you ALL!